minthota

harryshouseparty

holding my boob for emotional support

harryshouseparty

well

doubleca5t

saintjosie

the real reason i transitioned was to be my own emotional support

sensiblereblogifposts

Reblog if you are your own emotional support

revolutanyatist

anytime I’m sad I remember that I have boytits and go squish squish

elsbianism

celinethefeline

demon-and-genshin-men-slvt

WHOS A LIL GOOD BOYYYYY

paintoreos

GOOD BOY!!!!

xen-wylde

FLUFFY BOY

revolutanyatist

SIC EM BOI

tannoytalks

Something I doodled a little while ago and have again been sitting on :P I know Kel’s not that much shorter than Hero just roll with it

revolutanyatist

this gives hot yaoi base vibes (affectionate)

robloxboylikescats

struggling to find hero x kel shippers on here if you ship them pls interact im begging

revolutanyatist

HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII You wanna make our hero and kel plushies go mwah mwah

jasperlestat

revolutanyatist

hello do you eat knives + where did you get you top surgery

bloodbluepearl

anyways heres a big list of proshitters to block! you can copy and paste their urls into your blocked users list on your blog settings! happy block session!

la-abeja-azteca
fiction-is-not-reality3
theliterarywolf
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sl-ug
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pro-fiction-jellicle
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antisrterrible
siryouarebeingmocked
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baixueagain
lovedeatheren
gorelitaa
the-pros-and-cons-of-shipping
demongender-vibes
deadgirldonoteat
king-of-general-disarray
someoneintheshadow456
bluemoonfantasiesiii
majuuorthrus
toxic-blogman
freedom-of-fanfic
xxharryosbornxx
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things-antis-say
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proshipselfship
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antishipping
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delusional-sinner

im following all of them ty for the suggestions!! <3

revolutanyatist

🚨 new friends alert 🚨

bloodbluepearl

some of the people on that list are transphobic so im really confused as to what sort of crowd youre trying to affiliate with

revolutanyatist

oh I apologize which ones are transphobic so I can block them <3

bloodbluepearl

politely, i am not going to help somebody who enjoys pedophilia and incest weed bigger pieces of shit out of a list of pieces of shit

revolutanyatist

I like fictional characters not incest

cureaesthetic

Hysterical.

revolutanyatist

idk how antis can look at THIS and “go ah yes a father and son dynamic”

cureaesthetic

Hysterical.

revolutanyatist

idk how THIS looks like father and son to you

hamishsteele

silly-jester

I want to draw this cutie! =w=

revolutanyatist

is this genderless being edible

bobateahrt

jackdanielsripper plague-of-insomnia

plague-of-insomnia

Is Sebastian a Narcissist?

Recently, I came across a series of old posts translating some things from Yana’s now lost blog, in which she did an exercise to draw 30 different facial expressions for Sebastian.

The “shy” one particularly caught my eye because the translation describes Sebastian as “ultra narcissistic” and therefore he can’t really be shy.

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Screenshot of a tumblr post featuring a sketch of Sebastian Michaelis by Yana toboso. Above the text is translated in English and says: “30. Shy. I think he doesn’t ever feel flattered since he’s hyper narcissistic. He can only pretend to be shy, I guess? (Lol)” After a line break, there’s another translation of the scribbles on the sketch itself, “Demons probably don’t understand the feeling of ‘being flattered’ since they’re hyper narcissistic.”

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Now Yana does indeed use the word “narcissist” here (“narushisuto”), but keep in mind that loan words often have slightly different meanings/connotations in Japanese than they do in their original source language.

I do not have a loan word dictionary handy unfortunately, but I did do some investigating in one of my fave online Japanese-language dictionaries (it basically lets you see definitions from various sources at once).

The top definition describes a narcissist as someone who is so in love with themselves they’re “drunk” off of it.

The definition does not use the exact term, but there is a phrase in Japanese that essentially has this meaning. It’s a kind of phrase called “yojijukugo,” and these are always made up of four kanji.

In this case, they are 自己陶酔, which literally means “oneself, self, pottery, drunk,” or less literally, self-intoxication. In other words, extreme vanity.

Additionally, the words weblio includes as synonyms mean things like “pretentious,” “conceited,” acting “full of oneself.” It has a negative connotation and is probably intended as the opposite of the Japanese cultural ideal of the group before the individual.

Put this together with how Yana explains that it’s difficult/impossible to flatter him because he’s such a “narcissist,” and I think we have to assume that Yana isn’t meaning it the way we might here in the West when we use that word. Instead, I think what she means is that Sebastian is self absorbed and overly-vain, which makes sense based on what we’ve seen of him in the manga.

Now, ofc we can use narcissist in a similar way in English, as dictionary.com says:

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Screenshot from dictionary.com featuring the definition of narcissist: “noun. 1. A person who is overly self-involved, and often vain and selfish. 2. Psychiatry. A person who has narcissistic personality disorder.”

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But, often it has more of an association with the second one, and I think we definitely need to steer clear of that connotation when we look at Yana’s intent. (As far as I could see, that word is not used for the disorder in Japanese, but as I am not an expert on medical Japanese I could definitely be wrong, there.)

Nevertheless, I think we can all agree that Sebastian is vain and self absorbed, though I do think he’s changed significantly over the four years he’s been working with Ciel, and it will be interesting to see if he overcomes this “flaw” before the manga ends.

(I personally don’t feel you can apply a disorder to a nonhuman like Sebastian, but that is not really the point of this post and I would prefer not to get into discourse. I am not trying to say people with NPD are demonic or anything like that. Simply analyzing what Yana said and what that might mean.)

jackdanielsripper

Hmm yeah I gotta say as a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I really don’t see it in Sebastian at all. Yeah he’s a petty stuck up prick sometimes, but if he truly was a narcissist I think we would see him do a number of things, namely more manipulative and self serving things. He probably would have tricked Ciel into giving up his soul at some point. Narcissists tend to think that you owe them something no matter what you do, and I feel like being a butler would be insanely hard for someone like that to do. Not to mention how typically angry narcissists are about pretty much anything, so I feel like if he was, Seb would snap very easily at Ciel for disrespecting him. That’s just my reflection on what I know narcissistic people to be like, though, and I’m not a medical expert on the matter, so take it as you will.

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Is Sebastian a Narcissist?